In memory of Jeremy

Jeremy I am completely heartbroken, as is our whole legal community and almost everyone who knew dear Jeremy, and wanted to write you something. Words failed me for 24 hours. I’ve been shocked. Just a week ago I was shmoozing with him in court. He was someone I always looked forward to running into. We […]

A year ago.

  A year ago I sat in a hospital room for a week with my eldest brother. We watched my father pass. Together we held each other in spirit. Incredulous and helpless in the night in silence. So hard for me to believe that a year ago I watched the most unbelievable and life altering […]

Stop. The. Hate.

My personal message to stop the hate. The world is shifting backwards We are in a dark place All of you who like to post and post and promote hate should consider that your negativity is directly responsible for fueling the criminality. The shootings. The perpetual destruction of our world. This includes lawyers who promote […]

For my father

      My father was extraordinary.  I will never know anyone like him in my lifetime.  I do not know how to move these photos around yet but here are some photos of his art and something I wrote about him.  He passed away 8/27/15.  I am heartbroken and as my brother said — […]

125 Things I Wish I Could Actually Teach my Kids

Listen to your parents.  We are usually right. Make us crazy by testing number 1 above, and go take some risks on your own. We will try not to say “I told you so”.  You cannot truly learn until you get hurt. Don’t worry about calories.  Stay active, eat healthy and truly enjoy quality food. […]


By now many of you who have been kind enough to read my blog know about the other man in my life right now — Tyrone.  I find it funny that I wanted to run, run, run away from Tyrone when I first met him.  I still do.  But I think it’s because Tyrone demands […]